i’m usually the guy my friends come to for help and i like to think i dish out pretty fucking good advice but 99% of the time it ends up with them disagreeing with me and ignoring everything i say.
true enuff. most often people have already made up their minds and when they “seek advice” they’re really just looking for someone who agrees with them to help rationalize their past or future actions. more often than not, they’ll usually keep asking until they find someone who does agree with them, or in a false sense of loyalty, tell them what they think they want to hear.
our duty as friends- real friends - is to just.tell.the.truth.